You just aren’t handy. You are not good with tools. You don’t know a hammer from screwdriver. You would rather just pay someone to fix it. You are too busy with life. Yawn yawn spit cuss. One excuse is as good as another. Are you truly all thumbs with no coordination? Well, guess what, you can get over it. Do you think certain people were just born with handyman skills? They started walking one day and ripped a board on a table saw the next? Learning to use tools is no different than learning to ride a bike or play an instrument. It takes patience and practice!
Before you totally dismiss the premise of my post, let me concede that everyone has certain talents and strengths unique to them. The world would be boring if we were all good at the same things. People have different likes and desires as well. I get that. I’m talking to those of you who want to be handy and build things but are convinced you don’t have it in you. Developing a talent is all about work and desire. Do you really want it or has that become your excuse when you are in the presence of someone who acts instead of talks about acting?
Realize that the first thing you build or design is gonna suck, Own it and get over it. You will have this grandiose vision in your mind of what the final outcome will be and your finished product won’t even be recognizable. You’ll be lucky if it is even useful. But guess what? You learned something and will do better next time. You will identify your strengths and weaknesses. Design to your strengths and incorporate your weaknesses. So many cliches come to mind, but practice truly does make perfect.
I remember as a kid, we moved to a different state and somehow my baseball glove was lost. We didn’t have the money to just go out and buy another glove, so while I saved and wrote letters to Santa, I decided I could make my own out of plastic bags and stuffing. I planned it out in my mind for hours while laying in bed trying to fall asleep. In theory it should work just fine as an interim replacement glove. They really aren’t that complicated. So I cut out the shape of a glove and taped everything together just so. What a disaster! It wouldn’t even stay on my hand let alone catch a fly ball. I didn’t take into account the properties of leather and stitching. Stupid kid you may say. NO!! Brilliant. I had a need and tried to come up with a way to fix it. I learned more by failing than I would have by not even trying. I also built up a habit of learning by doing.
If there is a project you would like to build but haven’t had the cojones to take the plunge, do it!! If it turns into an epic fail,so what!! You’ll have a great time in the process and will build confidence for future projects. Dive in and make mistakes. Be willing to fail. I’ve never met someone who regretted failing, but have met many who regret they never tried.
Disclaimer: Read operating manuals to learn tool operation and safety guidelines before diving in. You wouldn’t dive into a pool without knowing how deep it is would you??